Monday, November 30, 2009
{ 12:15 AM }
Some people just don't know how to differentiate between ANGRY and DISAPPOINTMENT.
Ok, including myself -.-
But it's really very annoying when someone keeps saying others that you are being angry for something when you are actually disappointed.
It's actually a major difference when you use it in a sentence you know, these two words...
For example, perhaps, "I accidentally say her secret out then she angry liao leh"
GO DIE LA. MAKE PEOPLE SOUND LIKE SHE XIAO QI LIKE THAT LA WALAO EH LOL.
I will NEVER be angry, only disappointed. The only indication to show I am angry is when I am screaming the F word at everyone's faces.
And please don't make such a big fuss out of it when I do that. Don't act as if you've never said it before -.-
As in, it is even MORE disappointing to know that people misunderstood your disappointment as anger and make you sound like some bitch who has temper problems.
Like honestly, can you be more MATURE and UNDERSTANDING -.- it is VERY frustrating ARGH!!!
Ok ba, I think honestly, exposing one's secret is the worst crime I can think of. Or maybe that's for me.
As in, those secrets which are like, DIE DIE CANNOT TELL.
I mean, when someone trusts you enough to tell you, can't you just keep it.
IF you know saying it out will cause MAYHEM, then can't you have peace -.-
Is like, purposely zhao ma fan leh. Somemore drag like other people into it.
But once you've abused someone's trust, that person WILL remember it forever.
Ok maybe not everyone -.- but MOST. Its confirm de. Esp if that person genuinely thought you would actually keep quiet.
There was once an old man, who had a son who was a total bustard. The son likes to abuse people's trust and use it against others, and break any peace. One day, the old man took out a plank of wood and told the son, "whenever you have abused a person's trust, drive a nail into this wood", and so many nails were soon embedded into it. After a few days, the old man once again, told the son, "Now, remove a nail from this wood whenever you have apologised to a person" and soon, all the nails were removed. Then the old man said to the son, "see all these dents and holes? although you've apologised, but whatever you've committed is something you can never change and it will always be remembered, even if you're forgiven already"
It's not like I'm encouraging people to not FORGIVE and FORGET you know?
Honestly speaking, can you actually FORGET it? You can forgive, it's a wonderful thing to do,
but forgetting it? especially when it HURTS you alot? I don't think so. Unless you suffer from memory loss or something like this -.-
It will be there, for sure, and it will not fade so easily.
Not everyone is a saint, but sometimes I've no idea WHY people would just expose one's secret just SO EASILY. My goodness. HOW THE HELL YOU FIND THE CONSCIENCE AND CHEEK TO DO IT?
Is like, I'm overwhelmed by shock FIRST then disappointment because I don't even get why you can do it LOL. SERIOUSLY -.-
Ah anyway, whats done is done. Best solution to solve the problem for both parties is to JUST MOVE ON.
For the exposer, you should just go and die. You're horrible.
Ok joking, just move on lor. If you're forgiven, just be happy with it and don't keep being sad and bring it up in a bid to try and make the person forget what you've done. It wouldn't happen.
For the one being hurt, just move on also. You will remember it for sure, but it's okay and it doesn't matter anymore, so just look towards a BRIGHTER FUTURE :D
HAIS HAIS HAIS. BEST THING IS NOT TO HAVE ANY SECRETS LA WTF. JUST DA SHENG SHUO CHU LAI LA, NO BIG DEAL -.-
